צילום קאבר העיתון

Maya Tevet Dayan’s poem lays bare the loneliness of grief. Uniquely about the state of being un-mothered, it is universal in conveying intense emotional loss. The nuances of feeling and sentiment have been expertly translated from the Hebrew by Rachel Tzvia Back


It was evening, it was chaos, it was edge of the abyss.

And the quiet stood still.

A young doctor walked in and walked out

and was unable to say

if you had left or if

you were still here. Because at your end

you were no longer breath

just the hovering wing beat

of a fluttering heart.


Exactly as I once was

in your belly. Heart and heart,

no breath.

My beginning was a fetus of life.

Your ending was a fetus of death.



With your death you willed us your death.

Convoys of black words march nowhere

in your journals. Small emptied travel bags wait in the drawer

for nothing. My hands keep putting back in place

bottles and brushes that are no longer of any use.

Because now it’s time to sum up your journeys backwards

and your words – from the last

to the first.

And one must tell at length what happened

just like retellings of the Exodus tale:

Blood. Darkness. Death of the Firstborns.



I pull off

The small tacks that attach you to

the bulletin board, sort you

into boxes according to subject

and bury them in closed drawers.

A bit from here

a bit more from there

and already there are entire rooms where you

are not.

But the true sorrow belongs to your shoes

that worship with all their emptied curves

your toes, your arches, your soles.

Like a devotee, consumed with longings

venerating his god’s feet.



That night

was rainy like now.

Bursts of water pelted the roof like bullets

and my sister called to tell me you were dead.

I cried in the small arms of my daughter.

She said: I’ll be your mother now,

I told her

You be my daughter,

and I remained motherless.



The pregnancy of your death is longer

than can be borne

and sometimes

the slender threads of my patience threatens

to break—

like the delicate white strings of light

stretched from the lotus stem:

if they don’t rip

cloth is woven from them

more merciful than silk.

Every year

as my orphaned birthday draws near,


I expect you

to be reborn to me.